Emina Halimovic 1/21/26 Emina Halimovic 1/21/26

From Devotion to Freedom: Healing the Grief My Body Kept

*This reflection is shared as part of my healing work through Yin Yang Healing Arts. It explores grief held in the body, devotion, and the quiet wisdom of the nervous system. May it meet you gently.*

I have been doing the work. I have been searching. I have been questioning.

I have been sitting with myself in quiet rooms, in moments when the world feels far away, asking the same questions again and again. Why do I not allow myself to be loved fully? Why do I retreat into solitude even when my heart longs to connect? Why do I repeat the same patterns, over and over, in different bodies, across years I cannot get back?

And now I see it.

It was never random. It was never just timing, poor choices, or unworthy partners.

It was grief.

Silent. Unconscious. Deep inside me. Grief shaping every attraction, every devotion, every risk I was willing to take for love.

For years I carried it as strength. I appeared untouchable, composed, resilient, capable. I had my life together. I had my shit together. And I did. I do.

But beneath that strength, grief was holding the reins. Unseen. Unspoken. Unprocessed. Quietly shaping the patterns of my love.

I risked everything for love. Family. Culture. Identity. Safety. I trusted my intuition. I followed my heart. I believed devotion could awaken. I believed loyalty could transform. I believed hope could illuminate.

And still, betrayal came.

The first engagement was sudden and intense. I did not know what I was stepping into. My heart aligned. My mind quieted. My body followed. And yet cracks appeared. Secrecy. Hidden motives. Subtle cruelty I sensed before I had language for it.

I left before commitment solidified, but not without consequence. My father’s disappointment. Cultural ideals disrupted. Expectations failed. I carried grief. I carried shame. My nervous system recorded it all, layer by layer, without words.

Years later, I trusted again. I devoted myself again. I imagined partnership, communion, home, children.

I quieted my intuition. I told myself patience was holy. I told myself faith was sacred. I told myself devotion could transform.

And betrayal appeared again. Infidelity. Secrecy. Absence. The truth that the person I loved could not meet me where I needed.

For over a decade, grief quietly controlled the rhythm of my heart. I repeated the same patterns in different bodies. I gave devotion to the unavailable. I believed hope could awaken them. I believed my courage could transform what was not mine to change.

My life, my love, my identity, my self worth were all caught in a rhythm I could not see.

And I loved myself anyway.

I am grateful today for the person I have become because of these experiences. I am grateful for the courage I carried, the devotion I risked, the faith I held, the love I offered, even when it met absence.

Then he appeared.

I believed it would be different. I trusted him. I opened myself fully. I devoted myself fully.

My body whispered caution. My intuition nudged. I quieted it. I told myself devotion could awaken. I told myself devotion could illuminate. I told myself devotion could transform.

It did not.

The truth was hidden. His desires were elsewhere. In the moment of intimacy, the truth surfaced. He could not meet me because he was not living in his own truth.

My body had known. My heart had suspected. My mind had hoped anyway.

I cry now. I cry for the girl who believed so purely. I cry for the futures I prepared that never arrived. I cry for devotion that was never mirrored. I cry for the nervous system that learned safety in solitude and mistrust in hope.

And I am grateful for her courage. For her faith. For her willingness to risk everything.

I see her now. The girl who disrupted expectations, who carried courage and shame in equal measure. She was brave. She was sacred. She was alive. She was whole. She was enough.

And I love her. And I love myself.

This is where the pattern ends.

I no longer offer devotion before truth. I no longer confuse intensity with intimacy. I no longer sacrifice myself to prove the purity of my heart.

Love is still welcome. Deeply welcome. But it must arrive with honesty. It must arrive with clarity. It must arrive with consistency. It must arrive with the capacity to meet me where I am real.

And if you are reading this, let it be for you too.

If your chest tightens. If memories rise. If your body aches, softens, trembles, or opens, know this.

As you bring grief into awareness, as you allow your body to feel it fully, something unfolds. Patterns soften. The heart opens. Transformation emerges.

Somewhere inside, your nervous system may also have been keeping score silently. Let this be the moment that score softens. Let this be the witness that allows release. Let this be the invitation to transform.

I inhale deeply, feel my chest expand, feel grief move, feel it soften.

I step forward with grace for who I was. I step forward with reverence for what has been. I step forward with openness for a love that does not require me to disappear to be chosen.

I am already here.
I am already enough.
I am free.

#HealingThroughGrief, #ConsciousLove, #EmotionalTransformation

Emina Halimovic 1/20/26 Emina Halimovic 1/20/26

Meeting the Self You Left Behind

An Invitation

There is a particular kind of discomfort that arises when we encounter who we used to be. It is not quite embarrassment. It is not quite shame. It is the tight, hot, contracting sensation we often call cringe. The moment we see an old photo, hear our younger voice, or remember how openly we once loved, and something in us wants to turn away.

Most of us assume this feeling means we were wrong back then. That we were naive, exposed, or trying too hard. This is an exploration of what it might mean instead.

Sometimes I watch an old video of myself. I am teaching yoga. I am speaking about energy. I am looking into the camera with a softness that now feels both familiar and far away.

My body responds before my thoughts can organize. My chest tightens. My breath shortens. My shoulders pull slightly forward, as if preparing for a blow that never comes. Nothing is happening in the room around me, yet everything inside me reacts.

I am not embarrassed by her.

I am remembering how unsafe it once felt to be that open.

When I look at her, part of me wants to turn away. Not because she was wrong, but because I remember how unguarded she was. How much she hoped to be met with kindness. How little protection she had if she was not.

If you pause for a moment, you may recognize this too. Imagine seeing yourself years ago, speaking from sincerity before you learned how to contain it. Notice what your body does. The tightening in your throat. The subtle urge to look away. The small contraction that arrives before you can name it.

That sensation is not judgment. It is memory.

The nervous system does not measure time the way the mind does. When we witness our own vulnerability, the body returns to the moment when being seen carried risk. Muscles contract. Breath becomes careful. The heart pulls inward, not to punish, but to protect. This is not shame. It is a body remembering what it once had to do to survive exposure.

Beneath that contraction, something else is present. A quiet recognition. The soul remembers its own becoming. The discomfort is the meeting of who we were and who we are now. It is not rejection. It is contact.

As you read this, notice your body. Perhaps your jaw releases slightly. Perhaps your belly softens. You are not only taking in words. You are meeting a part of yourself that has been waiting to be acknowledged.

Radical self acceptance does not mean liking every version of who we have been. It means refusing to exile any of them. It means no part of us has to earn the right to belong. The awkward one. The tender one. The one who tried too hard. The one who did not yet know how to protect themselves. They all get to stay.

This is what healing actually is. Not improvement, but reunion.

For a long time, I believed the inner critic was something to overcome. Practice taught me something quieter. That voice formed during a time when visibility did not feel safe. It learned to tighten the body and sharpen awareness to prevent harm. It was not trying to punish. It was trying to keep me intact.

Nothing in you formed out of malice. Every part of you formed in response to love, even when it learned love through fear.

Now, when I watch those old videos, I imagine sitting beside that younger version of myself. I imagine placing a hand on her back, right where the tension once lived. I imagine telling her what no one could say at the time.

You are not too much.

You are not foolish for being open.

You were brave in a world that did not always know how to hold you.

As you read this, notice what happens inside. Maybe something loosens. Maybe your eyes soften. Maybe a memory surfaces that you usually keep at a distance. That is not coincidence. That is your nervous system recognizing a truth it has been waiting to hear.

This is integration. This is how the grip begins to release. This is how the parts of us that learned to go quiet in order to survive begin to return.

When we stop pushing experience away, life itself becomes practice. We notice sensation. We notice thought. We notice emotion. And instead of turning from any of it, we allow it to move.

Every moment of awareness gives the body permission to soften. Every moment of acceptance gives the soul more room to breathe.

Your past self was not a mistake.

Your awkwardness was not a flaw.

Your vulnerability was not a weakness.

It was consciousness learning how to live inside a human nervous system.

So when that familiar cringe arises, pause. Feel your feet. Feel your breath. Feel the quiet rhythm of your heart. You are not back there anymore. You are here, and you are capable of holding what once felt like too much.

This is radical self acceptance. Not cutting off what was, but letting it belong. Not fighting your shadow, but allowing it into the circle of who you are.

Presence meeting what once overwhelmed it, and discovering it can finally be held.

#RadicalSelfAcceptance, #NervousSystemHealing,#EmbodiedAwareness

Emina Halimovic 1/9/26 Emina Halimovic 1/9/26

Language from the Body

There are moments when the body speaks more clearly than the mind ever could. When movement slows, energy fades, and the life we have been sustaining is suddenly interrupted.

This piece was written from one of those moments.

It is a reflection on sickness not as failure, but as communication. An invitation to listen when something within us is no longer willing to be overridden. To examine the costs we normalize and the ways we continue long after what we are doing no longer aligns with who we are becoming.

I am not someone who gets sick often.

I care for my body. I move with intention. I am mindful about where I place my energy and who I allow close.

And still, sickness arrived.

It came quietly at first, then all at once. One moment I was participating in my life, fulfilling expectations and sustaining momentum. The next, my body withdrew its consent. Movement grew heavy. Energy vanished. I could no longer keep pace with the version of myself I had been maintaining.

There is something deeply humbling about illness. It removes you from your roles. It dissolves productivity. It returns you to the raw truth of being a body. Not a mind with plans or a will powered by discipline. Just a body asking to be listened to.

At first, I resisted. Sickness is inconvenient. It disrupts carefully built systems. It exposes how much of our worth has been tied to our ability to show up, to endure, to keep going.

But as stillness settled in, something else surfaced.

A question.

Not why am I sick, but what have I been carrying.

I began to see that what exhausted me was not effort alone. It was the constant override. The quiet dismissal of my limits. Old survival patterns lingering long after the danger had passed. Ways of being that once kept me safe, but now asked too much of my body.

I had been offering my energy to spaces that did not reflect my values. To systems that required my presence without fully honoring it. To versions of myself that no longer fit who I am becoming.

The body does not negotiate with these things.

It responds.

In that way, sickness felt less like something going wrong and more like something becoming honest. A pause that pulled me out of what I had already outgrown, even as my mind struggled to catch up.

We often treat illness as an interruption, something to move through quickly so we can return to life as it was. But what if some forms of sickness are not asking us to return. What if they are asking us to reorient.

What if the body is saying this way of living costs too much.

When the body is honored, everything else begins to reorganize. Mental clarity sharpens. Emotional tolerance shifts. What you once endured without question starts to feel unbearable. Overexertion loses its virtue. Old patterns loosen their grip.

This is not dramatic. It is not abstract. It is deeply practical and quietly spiritual. The body speaks when gentler signals have been ignored. Not to punish. Not to betray. But to protect. To restore integrity where it has been slowly leaking away.

The question sickness asked me was simple, but unavoidable.

Am I willing to continue living this way

at the cost of my body

at the cost of my well being

at the cost of my energy and truth

And beneath it, another question waited.

What would change if I trusted my body as much as I trust my will.

I am still listening. Still integrating. Still learning how to choose differently. But I know this now. Once you begin honoring your body, there is no unknowing. You cannot return to tolerating what diminishes you simply because it is familiar.

Sickness, uncomfortable as it is, can be a call back into alignment. A reminder that your body is not separate from your values. It is where they live. It is where truth makes itself known.

If you have ever been brought into stillness by illness and felt something quietly rearranging beneath the surface, perhaps your body was not failing you.

Perhaps it was telling you the truth.

#ListenToYourBody, #SelfCareReflection, #EmbodiedWisdom

Emina Halimovic 1/6/26 Emina Halimovic 1/6/26

Faith and Choice: A Dialogue With the Divine

There comes a moment in life when the question is no longer what you believe, but how you live inside what you believe.

I have sat quietly with this tension: faith and choice, destiny and free will. If faith is real, is everything already decided? And if choice is real, is everything entirely in my hands?

For a long time, those questions felt like opposites pulling me apart.

But they are not opposites. They are partners.

Faith is not the erasure of choice. And choice is not the absence of faith. They exist together, not as a contradiction, but as a relationship.

Faith, I have come to understand, is the choice made by the Creator first. The Creator chooses to believe in us. To place possibility into our hands. To trust us with breath, with consciousness, with the capacity to love, to destroy, and to rebuild again.

That is faith.

Choice, then, is our response.

I learned this not through certainty, but through love.

Someone I love has been walking through a season of deep refinement. A time shaped by difficult decisions and life altering choices. His life and mine are very different. Our paths do not align in any simple or practical way. And yet, they coincide. Not in outcome, but in meaning.

There were moments when I wanted clarity. When I wanted reassurance. When I wanted love to resolve into togetherness, into something tangible and certain. But life asked something else of me. It asked me to allow freedom. His. Mine.

Loving him did not mean holding on. It meant trusting what was unfolding in his life, even when I could not walk beside him through it. It meant honoring my own becoming as well. Love became less about possession and more about reverence.

We could not be together. And yet, the connection did not disappear. It changed form. It became a quiet dialogue with God.

In that space, I understood something essential. Faith was not asking me to secure the outcome. Faith was asking me to choose love without guarantees. To bless the path, even if it did not include me. To trust that destiny is not always about union, but about alignment with truth.

I chose that.

And in choosing love as freedom, I felt both the ache of separation and the peace of integrity. I was not abandoned. I was not mistaken. I was held.

That is how I came to understand this.

If everything were predetermined, love would lose its meaning. Obedience without freedom is not devotion. It is compliance. And if everything were only choice, with no guiding presence beneath us, life would become unbearable. The weight of meaning would crush us. We would never rest.

So both must exist.

Faith is the hand of the Creator extended toward you.

Choice is your hand deciding whether to reach back.

Destiny is not a rigid script written in stone. It is a landscape. A terrain already shaped with valleys and horizons and paths that curve out of sight. Choice determines how you walk through it. Where you pause. What you turn away from. What you sanctify simply by staying present.

Faith does not mean the outcome is fixed. Faith means you are held, even when the outcome is unknown.

Choice does not mean you are alone. Choice means you are participating.

This is where the misunderstanding lives. Many believe faith requires surrendering agency. But true faith demands agency. Without choice, faith cannot be expressed. Without faith, choice becomes frantic, fearful, and unmoored.

Choice is not rebellion against God.

Choice is conversation with God.

Every decision is a sentence spoken back into the universe. Every intention is a prayer, whether you name it that way or not. Fear speaks one language. Love speaks another. Integrity speaks slowly and clearly. Avoidance speaks in silence.

The life you live becomes the language you use in this dialogue.

Your choices do not override divine will. They reveal how willing you are to engage with it. Faith sets the horizon. Choice determines the steps. Faith says meaning exists. Choice asks whether you will align with it or resist it.

This is the sacred tension. Held and free. Guided and responsible. Written and alive.

You are not here to control life.

You are here to converse with it.

And the words you choose to speak through action, through courage, through restraint, through love, those words shape the life you will have.

Faith does not remove responsibility. It makes responsibility holy.

Choice does not remove God. It is where you meet God.

Again and again. In every small yes. In every brave no. In every moment you decide how to answer the hand that is already reaching for you.

#FaithAndChoice, #LoveAsFreedom,#DivineDialogue

Emina Halimovic 12/28/25 Emina Halimovic 12/28/25

When the Body Remembers Before the Mind Does

There are certain moments in life when I feel hollow in a way that words cannot quite explain. Not sad exactly. Not broken. Just paused. As if something inside me is waiting for a signal, a permission slip to begin again.

It is usually in those moments that Kundalini yoga finds me.

I do not go searching for it with intention. It appears. A class suggestion. A memory resurfacing. A quieter inner nudge that says, try this again. And every time, I am a little surprised by how precise the timing feels, as if the practice knows something about me before I do.

I am both a student and a teacher of Kundalini yoga, and yet I do not live inside the practice. I move away from it. I forget it. I do not always teach it, and I do not always practice it. Still, when something inside me begins to stall, when my inner world tightens or grows quiet, it finds me again. Not as a demand, but as an invitation.

Kundalini yoga is often described as a spiritual discipline, but for me it feels more like a conversation with the body. A way of asking questions without words. A way of listening through breath, posture, and sensation rather than thought. I come to the mat not seeking answers, but willing to witness whatever begins to move.

At first, the experience is unmistakably physical. Breath shifts. Muscles stretch, tremble, contract, and release. Heat builds. The spine feels alive, as if energy is learning how to travel upward again. The nervous system responds before the mind has time to interpret.

What I slowly began to realize is that this practice is not only moving my body. It is reorganizing my brain.

The chemistry shifts. Neurons fire differently. Signals travel new pathways, altering how my body prepares to move, respond, and orient itself in space. Muscles engage with less force and more intelligence. Bones feel carried rather than commanded. Even the impulse to act arises from a different place.

It is mind-blowing to witness how breath and posture can influence the most microscopic processes inside the body. How something so ancient can reshape something so modern as neurological patterning. And yet, this is only the beginning.

As the body reorganizes, the mind expands. Thoughts arrive with more space around them. Old mental loops loosen their grip. New perceptions emerge quietly, without announcement. I feel my consciousness stretching, refining, noticing. It is as if I am receiving a new template for thought itself.

I am not forcing transformation. I am watching refinement happen.

Through breathwork, meditation, and repetition, I witness myself shifting. Not becoming someone new, but returning to something more original. My internal frequency changes, and with it, my experience of reality. The way I interpret situations. The way I respond to uncertainty. The way I trust my own inner signals.

This is where the experience becomes exhilarating and unsettling all at once.

Because when your inner world recalibrates, your outer world responds. Relationships shift. Desires refine themselves. Old expectations dissolve. Life begins to reorganize itself around a deeper alignment, and suddenly, the familiar no longer feels true.

And beneath all of it, there is a quiet request.

Pay attention. Breathe. Notice.

The deeper I go into these practices, the more trust is asked of me. Not blind faith. Not certainty. But embodied trust. Trust in my breath. Trust in my intuition. Trust in the intelligence moving through me that does not need my permission to exist.

That trust can feel intimidating. Because once you begin to listen, you cannot unhear. Once you feel the shift, you cannot unknow it. You are asked to move through the world without the old maps, guided instead by sensation, presence, and an inner knowing that grows stronger the more you honor it.

Through Kundalini yoga and breathwork, I have come to experience a force moving through us that cannot be controlled, yet can be met. Some call it God. Some call it Source. I experience it as a living intelligence, flowing through the body, responding to attention, breath, and willingness.

The breath becomes an interface. A bridge between the physical and the unseen. Between brain chemistry and consciousness. Through it, I experience both the illusion of control and the deeper truth of alignment.

I do not write this to convince anyone to practice Kundalini yoga or breathwork. I write it as an offering. A reminder that the body remembers what the mind forgets. That wisdom lives beneath our habits, our fears, and our carefully constructed identities.

Sometimes transformation does not arrive as a breakthrough. Sometimes it arrives as a quiet internal reorganization. A soft shift. A subtle return.

And sometimes, it begins the moment you notice your breath. The moment your body pauses. The moment something inside you whispers, try this again.

If you are reading this now, take a breath. Feel the weight of your body. Notice what is moving beneath the surface. You may find that what you need is already here, quietly waiting for you to see it.

#KundaliniYoga #BreathworkJourney #EmbodiedAwakening

Emina Halimovic 12/21/25 Emina Halimovic 12/21/25

Forgiveness as Energetic Integration

There are moments on the healing path when disappointment does not arrive as collapse, but as refinement. Not loud. Not dramatic. Just quietly revealing what has already been true beneath the surface.

This reflection comes from one of those moments.

I have devoted years to energetic awareness, nervous system regulation, and inner alignment; practices that teach the body to listen, the mind to soften, and the heart to stay open without dissolving its boundaries. And still, life offered me an experience that carried sadness, confusion, and unmet expectation.

Not as punishment. Not as regression. But as material.

One of the more subtle illusions on a spiritual path is the belief that healing exempts us from pain. In reality, healing changes how pain moves through us. It shortens its stay, clarifies its message, and leaves less residue behind.

In this experience, I saw clearly how unintegrated wounds and shadow aspects influence behavior; how fear, survival, and unresolved identity can shape choices that feel confusing or hurtful from the outside. And I also saw something else.

Beneath behavior, there is still a being. Beneath confusion, there is still a longing for wholeness.

This does not excuse actions. It contextualizes them.

Forgiveness, as I am coming to understand it, is not an act of moral superiority. It is an act of energetic completion. It is the moment when we stop rehearsing the story in the mind and allow the body and subtle layers to release what they no longer need to hold.

If you are reading this, you may recognize the moment that follows disappointment: the quiet self-questioning, the thought that says, I should have known better, the doubt that wonders whether all the inner work actually worked.

If that voice has visited you, nothing has gone wrong.

Awareness does not prevent contrast. It changes how quickly we recognize it, how soon we listen, and how fully we return to ourselves afterward. Growth does not mean we stop encountering complexity. It means we abandon ourselves less when it appears.

Forgiveness can feel especially confusing at this stage. It may feel like letting someone off the hook or like betraying your own discernment. But true forgiveness does not ask you to forget what you learned. It asks you to stop punishing yourself for being human.

From a Kundalini Yoga perspective, forgiveness works across all layers of being. It settles the physical body where tension has been held, softens the emotional body where disappointment contracted the heart, reorganizes the mental body around clarity rather than rumination, strengthens the arc line by restoring integrity with the self, and clears the auric field by releasing unfinished energetic loops.

This is how karma dissolves: not by bypassing pain, but by meeting it with presence; not by closing the heart, but by clarifying it.

Self-compassion is essential here. Honoring the part of us that hoped, the part that trusted, the part that felt disappointed. None of these parts are naive. They are human. And they deserve tenderness, not judgment.

When we offer compassion to ourselves, forgiveness becomes natural. Not forced. Not spiritualized. Just honest.

What remains after forgiveness is not weakness. It is spaciousness. A felt sense of coherence returning to the body. A quiet confidence that we can trust ourselves, even when things do not unfold as expected.

This is not about becoming invulnerable. It is about becoming whole.

If you find yourself in the middle of your own integration, let this be a reminder. Reflection is not failure. Sensitivity is not regression. The fact that you are listening instead of numbing, softening instead of hardening, speaks to the depth of your awareness.

Nothing has been wasted.

Forgiveness is not the end of the story. It is the moment the story releases its hold on you.

#Forgiveness, #HealingThroughAwareness

Emina Halimovic 12/13/25 Emina Halimovic 12/13/25

A Conversation With Being

I really enjoy solitude. Not as a retreat from life, but as a return to myself.

I enjoy being with my thoughts, noticing the kinds of thoughts that arrive, and sensing the vibrational frequencies they carry. I can feel where I am operating from, or receiving from, without needing to analyze it. There is something deeply fascinating about that awareness. And there is a quiet happiness that comes with it.

Because of this, I often make it my intention to remove myself from noise. And when I cannot remove myself physically, I find my center anyway. In chaotic environments, I release the need for anything external to validate a good feeling. I stop looking outward for an experience to witness joy, and instead allow the feeling to arise from within me. This has taught me that my center is always accessible.

I look forward to moments when I can spend time with myself. Moments where I am learning myself rather than improving myself. Moments where connection is vibrational rather than verbal. It is an amazing place to be, inside yourself.

Being outside deepens this experience for me. Especially on days when the temperature feels just right. Not overbearingly hot, not piercingly cold. It feels like the beginning of fall, with a gentle coolness in the air, even though it is technically winter in Pensacola.

I am sitting outside as I write this. I can feel the sun on my skin, gentle but present. I love daylight. I love what it awakens in me.

In front of me are trees dressed in yellow, brown, and amber, with hints of red woven through softer creams and greens. Palm trees stand among them, grounding the scene in contrast. It feels layered and alive.

There are birds gathered in one of the trees. A whole flock, taking up space together. They are singing. I do not know exactly what they are communicating to one another, but I know that they are. Their sound reaches me, and I receive it.

I love the idea that I am being influenced by their being in my experience. Energetically, vibrationally. Not because I am trying to interpret them, but because I am allowing myself to be affected by their presence.

As I watch them, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude. Gratitude that they are here. Gratitude that they are so beautiful. Gratitude that they are untouchable by my human hands, free in their expression, and generous in their existence. I feel joy simply witnessing them.

Every so often, they rise together and fly over me. As they move through the sky, they create patterns, images, and fleeting tapestries that exist only for that moment. I find myself making wishes as they pass. Sending them outward, into the birds, into the universe, without attachment.

There is a knowing in me that this experience was given to me. That witnessing them is already part of the gift. And in that knowing, I feel a quiet trust that whatever I wish for, with awareness and sincerity, is already on its way.

I am overwhelmed with gratitude. Not only for seeing this with my eyes, but for being part of an energetic exchange I do not need to fully understand. Whether consciously or unconsciously, I am in communion with what is around me.

Inside myself, I begin to pray. Not in words, but in feeling. Please let this continue. Please let the sky stay light a little longer. Let me keep admiring this vibrancy of aliveness before darkness returns.

There is something exhilarating about this awareness. Something sacred in noticing how alive everything is, and how briefly it appears in this exact form. It makes me think about the universe, about timing, about grace, about how little is required to feel deeply fulfilled.

Perhaps you have known a moment like this too. A pause where nothing needed to be fixed or understood. Where you did not need to arrive anywhere else to feel complete.

If so, maybe this is simply a reminder. That this place still exists. That you can return to it. That it has been within you longer than you remember.

In moments like this, I remember that joy does not need to be loud. Connection does not need to be complicated. And meaning does not need to be imposed.

Sometimes, it simply arrives. And we are here to witness it.

#MindfulPresence, #Solitude, #NatureMeditation

Emina Halimovic 12/12/25 Emina Halimovic 12/12/25

The Connection That Calls Me Home to Myself

Awareness By Presence: The Spiritual Architecture of Connection

*There are people who awaken something ancient inside us without asking, without trying, without knowing.*

There are encounters that do not feel accidental. They arrive quietly, yet something in them awakens a movement within us. Not the kind of movement we recognize with the mind, but the one that stirs in the deeper chambers of our being. It feels like recognition. Like anticipation. Like a subtle inner shift that says, pay attention.

This is what happened when he entered my awareness.

From the outside, nothing extraordinary occurred. No fireworks, no instant spark. Yet beneath the surface, within the unseen layers of intuition and spirit, something opened. An energetic pull rose in me—not toward his physical form, but toward the essence he carries. The way he listens. The way his presence receives my words fully, with devotion and attention.

He receives what I say with all layers of himself—not only with thought, but with instinct; not only with attention, but with presence. It feels as if he processes my truth through every part of his being. In that experience, I feel rare clarity, I feel understood. I feel aligned in places where I often feel different. And within that sense of being understood, something creative and intuitive awakens inside me.

He inspires the high priestess within me; the part of me that knows without explanation. The part of me that senses the flow of life before it appears. Being in his presence, or even in thought of him, brings me closer to my own inner knowing, my own inner guidance. It makes me feel aligned, alive, and vibrationally attuned to who I truly am.

And yet, the connection does not exist only in light. It also lives in reflection.

His emotional body carries chaos at times, and I recognize its shape because I have walked my own shadows. His unbalanced moments do not confuse me; they feel familiar. Through that familiarity, I meet him with compassion rather than judgment. I see his emotional patterns because I have experienced my own.

Even when he resists, when the ego rises, a deeper part of him still listens. I have observed him shift, correct and refine himself willingly when something in him recognizes the call to growth. Witnessing someone soften the armor of ego to step closer to their alignment is rare. It is humbling, intimate and beautiful.

And it awakens me as well.

He expands me. I expand him. The dynamic is catalytic, moving both of us into deeper aspects of our own evolution. Not because we are trying to change one another, but because the connection demands honesty. Something within it calls us to rise into our highest selves.

Through him, I explore deeper layers of my intuition. Through him, I reconnect with questions I have carried since childhood: Who am I beyond this body? Beyond the stories I tell myself? Beyond the limitations I once believed? He does not create these questions. He illuminates them. He brings out the parts of me that have always wanted to grow—the seeker, the mystic, the part of me that is ready to expand in consciousness.

The fascination I feel is not solely about him. It is about the way I rise in relation to him. About the clarity, joy, and alignment that emerge inside me. About the truth that becomes louder in his presence.

We all encounter souls who awaken something inside us. Not always lovers—sometimes friends, strangers, even brief meetings that shift our inner energy. When we notice these shifts, we begin to see how the universe teaches us, heals us, and calls us home to ourselves, back into alignment.

Every person who touches our life becomes a mirror. Some mirrors soften us. Some challenge us. Some illuminate our strength. Some reveal our wounds and our misalignments. Some bring us back into communion with our intuition, joy and clarity. Some help us remember who we truly are.

When someone awakens something ancient within us, it is not a signal to cling. It is a signal to listen. An invitation to explore the parts of ourselves that rise in their presence. A doorway into our own healing, into alignment, joy and expanded vibration.

The soul uses connection as a teacher. Attraction becomes a guide. Fascination becomes a compass pointing toward the next chapter of our evolution.

This writing is not only about a person. It is about the spiritual, vibrational architecture of connection. About the way our inner world responds when we encounter a mirror. About recognizing that every relationship can call us home to ourselves.

If someone in your life stirs something within you, pause and look inward. Ask not who they are, but who you become in their presence. Ask what opens. What softens. What expands. What truth or vibrational clarity they reveal in you.

Sometimes, the most powerful connections are not the ones that stay. They are the ones that awaken. The ones that hold up a mirror. The ones that guide us back to the essence of who we are.

They are the connections that call us home to ourselves.

If these words touch something personal in your own life, feel free to share what arose for you in the space below. There is power in allowing insight to be witnessed.

#SoulConnections, #InnerAlignment #MirrorWork

Emina Halimovic 12/7/25 Emina Halimovic 12/7/25

When Silence Speaks: How Relationships Reveal the Wounds We Are Ready to Heal

There are moments in our lives when a connection with another person becomes something deeper than a simple relationship or a fleeting bond. Sometimes a single person becomes a mirror, reflecting back parts of us that have been quiet for years. These moments often feel tender, confusing, painful, or transformative. Sometimes they feel like all of these things at once and more.

Recently I found myself in a dynamic with someone who carries emotional distance and avoidance like armor. Someone who responds only when he has the emotional strength to do so. Someone who reads my messages yet slips into silence when I ask something gentle, like how his birthday went. Talking to him became a dance. Some days he steps forward. Other days he disappears into himself.

I thought I was reaching out from pure love, but then I noticed something. His silence was affecting me. His distance echoed louder inside my heart than I expected. And I had to ask myself a question that changed everything within myself.

Why does his silence feel so familiar?

Why does my body respond as if this is not the first time I have felt an emotional disappearance?

That question became the doorway.

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The Mirror of Connection

Sometimes we think another person triggers our emotional pain. The truth is more profound. They awaken emotional landscapes that already exist inside us. They stir the vibrations that were imprinted long before they arrived in our lives.

This connection became a mirror that showed me where my own emotional patterns were still living under the surface. Patterns of reaching outward for reassurance. Patterns of feeling unsteady when someone I cared about became quiet. Patterns of giving more love in order to feel close to someone who could not meet me fully.

He was not the cause. He was the catalyst.

His behavior illuminated the places within me that still held memories of unpredictability, of inconsistency, of needing to earn connection. Without realizing it, I had been living with emotional imprints that shaped my responses every day.

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The Emotional Imprints That Rise in Silence

When I sat with myself gently, honestly, and without judgment, I began to feel what his silence was awakening inside me.

The Imprint of Needing Reassurance to Feel Safe

This is the feeling that rises when someone I care for grows quiet. It is the question that whispers against my ribs.

Is something wrong?

Did something shift?

Is it me?

This feeling is older than the present moment. It belongs to a younger version of me who learned that emotional stability was fragile. A version of me who had to check the room before relaxing. A version of me who became attuned to unpredictability long before adulthood.

The Imprint of Emotional Abandonment

The feeling of being left on read touched something deep. It was not about the message. It was the sudden absence of presence. The kind of absence that creates a drop in the body.

This feeling pointed to moments from the past where connection felt uncertain, where the emotional presence I needed was not always available. It taught me to overthink silence instead of trusting stillness.

The Imprint of Over Giving to Create Closeness

I realized how naturally I offer love, comfort, kindness, and emotional support. I offer it abundantly. Yet this part of me was shaped by environments where I learned to earn love through giving. I learned that closeness was something I had to create, not something I received naturally.

These realizations unfolded like soft truths, guiding me closer to myself.

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The Rising Desire Within Me

This connection awakened a desire for emotional clarity.

A desire for emotional reciprocity.

A desire for the kind of love that meets me fully.

A desire to feel steady within myself regardless of who responds or who withdraws.

A desire to remain open without losing my center.

A desire to love without abandoning myself.

What I wanted from him was not actually about him.

It was about the part of me that longed for emotional safety.

Seeing this was not painful.

It was liberating.

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Bringing My Emotional Center Back Home

I began to understand something that shifted everything.

My emotions were being fueled by reaction rather than alignment.

His silence was shaping my vibration instead of my vibration shaping the interaction.

So I turned inward.

I placed my hand on my chest and said to myself:

This is my energy.

This is my center.

This is my power.

I felt myself return home.

I learned that my emotional flow does not have to depend on what someone else does or does not do. I can create a steady inner warmth. I can be grounded in my own presence. I can love someone without losing myself. I can remain open without overextending.

When I began to anchor into this truth, everything softened.

I no longer needed his response to feel whole.

I no longer needed his reassurance to feel safe.

I no longer needed his consistency to feel steady.

My vibration came back to me.

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What This Connection Is Teaching Me

This relationship, whatever shape it takes, is not here to wound me.

It is here to guide me.

It is helping me walk back toward myself.

It is helping me reclaim emotional balance.

It is helping me see which patterns are ready to be dissolved.

It is helping me access memories that shaped my emotional template.

It is helping me rise into a version of myself who can love without self betrayal.

His silence is not the problem.

His silence is the mirror.

His silence is the teacher.

His silence is the catalyst guiding me toward the emotional security that my inner being has been calling me toward.

I am learning to love from fullness rather than fear.

I am learning to stay steady in my own alignment.

I am learning to feel complete regardless of external responses.

I am learning to trust my inner voice more than the behavior of another person.

That is the gift of this connection.

And it is a gift I am finally ready to receive.

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Healing Practices to Reclaim Your Emotional Alignment

1. Anchor Into Your Own Energy

Place your hand on your chest and breathe slowly. Say to yourself:

This is my energy. This is my center. This is my power.

Feel it. Let the warmth radiate through your body. This is your baseline vibration, steady and unconditional.

2. Track the Emotional Imprint

When a connection triggers you, notice the exact feeling.

Ask yourself:

Where else have I felt this?

Who or what first created this sensation?

Sit with the feeling without judgment. Let the body recall the memory. Awareness is the first step to shifting old patterns.

3. Shift Your Focus From Reaction to Alignment

When you notice yourself reacting to someone else’s distance or silence, pause. Turn your attention inward. Ask:

What vibration do I want to hold right now?

Am I choosing to feel secure, steady, and open?

Allow your inner being to lead rather than reacting to the external behavior.

4. Release Expectation

Say to yourself:

I can love fully without needing anything in return.

I can care without overextending.

I can remain open while staying grounded in myself.

Your presence and your love are enough. Let them flow freely.

5. Celebrate Your Growth

Notice each time you feel steadier despite the silence or inconsistency of others.

Recognize it as proof of your emotional sovereignty.

Honor your ability to reclaim your own energy. This is the real work of healing.

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When we allow silence to be our mirror, it teaches us what words cannot. It shows us the imprints we carry, the patterns that shape our hearts, and the space inside ourselves where true alignment lives. Learning to sit in this reflection and reclaim our emotional center is the most profound act of self love.

If this mirrors any part of your own journey, I would love to hear what it brings up for you. May your silence guide you back to yourself, and may your heart feel safe in its own rhythm.

#Emotionalhealing, #Healingthroughsilence, #SelfLoveJourney

Emina Halimovic 10/27/25 Emina Halimovic 10/27/25

The Intelligence of Breath: Reflection on Sudarshan Chakra Kriya

Breath is one of the most subtle yet powerful tools for connecting with ourselves. Through conscious breathing, we can access deeper awareness, release tension, and restore balance in body, mind, and spirit. In this reflection, I share a personal experience with Sudarshan Chakra Kriya, a transformative breathwork practice I have engaged with for several years. This is a moment from my practice and a glimpse into what unfolds internally as the breath moves through the body, mind, and energy.

Sudarshan Chakra Kriya is a pranayama practice that was taught to me by Yogi Bhajan during my Kundalini Yoga Teacher Trainings. Rooted in the tradition of Kundalini Yoga, it is designed to cleanse the energy channels, balance the nervous system, and harmonize the physical, mental, and energetic aspects of being.

Breathwork has always felt like a bridge between the seen and the unseen, between what I can guide and what I must surrender to. After years of working with Sudarshan Chakra Kriya, pausing and returning to it, I notice that the practice continues to evolve. Each session feels both familiar and new. Each inhale and exhale carries its own story, and even moments of resistance or heaviness reveal something essential about the inner landscape.

I was seated, inhaling long and deep through my left nostril while keeping the right nostril closed. I engaged Mula Bandha, the root lock at the base of the spine, and began pumping my belly rhythmically, three pumps to one beat. The motion felt like a pulse, steady and alive, like the heartbeat of the earth moving within me. With each pump, awareness moved downward and inward, touching something fundamental, almost like uncovering a hidden current.

As I observed this pulse deepening, I became aware of its effects on both body and energy. Physically, this rhythmic engagement stimulates the diaphragm and tones the abdominal region, supporting circulation and oxygenation in the lower body. Energetically, it awakens the root and pelvic centers, lifting prana upward and beginning to clear the inner channels of vitality.

A few minutes in, the inhale began to feel heavy, almost dense, as if the air had to work to find its way in. At first, I felt impatient, noticing subtle resistance in the chest and belly. But staying with it, pumping through the weight, holding the breath, and exhaling through the right nostril revealed something profound. The heaviness itself was teaching me patience, presence, and surrender. The sensation mirrored a kind of inner purification, a clearing of stagnation that the mind might otherwise overlook. Energetically, layers of tension moved, making space for more refined awareness to flow. Mentally, I noticed old thoughts loosening and a subtle softening of habitual judgment and self-criticism.

Then, at some point, the breath changed. It became lighter and smoother. The inhale flowed more freely, almost entirely through the left side. The left nostril felt opened in a new way, shaped into a subtle channel that seemed to reach through the skull and illuminate the left side of my face from within. This was not a surface sensation but an inner movement of breath and awareness.

In yogic language, this could be described as the awakening of Ida Nadi, the cooling lunar current that governs intuition, calm, and inward reflection. Physiologically, left-sided breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which supports rest, safety, and integration. It was as if the breath itself was guiding awareness, like a gentle river carving its path through a landscape, revealing hidden contours and quiet spaces I might otherwise overlook.

By the end of the session, it felt as though I was breathing from within the left side of my body, centered, quiet, and spacious. A distinct clarity and softness lingered beyond the practice, a feeling of inner luminosity and ease. I noticed how these shifts carried into daily life. Small moments of stress felt lighter, interactions felt more grounded, and even ordinary breath became a gentle guide back to presence.

Each time I return to this kriya, I am reminded that every breath has its own intelligence. When we listen closely enough, the body begins to teach us what it needs to release, what it is ready to open, and how it wishes to balance itself. Even when the breath feels heavy or the process uncertain, presence itself becomes the teacher.

Through long practice, I have come to understand that every session unfolds across multiple layers. The muscular and respiratory systems shape the physical rhythm of breath. The nervous system mediates our state of being. The energetic body reflects and directs consciousness. Sudarshan Chakra Kriya engages all of these layers simultaneously, creating a bridge between breath and awareness, matter and energy.

Invitation to Practice

Even a few minutes of focused breathing can reveal subtle shifts and insights. You might try this now. Sit comfortably and inhale gently through your left nostril while keeping the right nostril closed. Lightly engage the base of your spine and notice the movement of your belly with each breath. Exhale fully through the right nostril. Observe the sensations, the rhythm, and the quiet awareness behind each inhale and exhale. Allow yourself to simply be with the breath and notice what arises.

Personal Note

I have practiced Sudarshan Chakra Kriya for several years, including intensive periods that brought me into extended meditative states. Every practitioner’s experience is unique. The sensations, shifts, and insights I describe here are what unfolded for me. My hope is that sharing this reflection supports others in their own breathwork journey, offering a window into the depth and quiet transformation that arise when we fully engage with the intelligence of our own breath.

#ConsciousBreath,#SacredStillness

Emina Halimovic 10/2/25 Emina Halimovic 10/2/25

The Self We Find in Absence

What We Really Miss When Someone Leaves

What does it mean to miss someone? Is it really their absence we feel, or the echo of ourselves that they once awakened?

When someone leaves our life, whether through death, distance, or the unraveling of a relationship, absence often comes dressed as longing. We feel the hollow space where they once stood and say we miss them, their voice, their presence, their touch. Yet I have often wondered, what is it that we are truly missing?

Through my own experiences, I have noticed a quiet truth. Sometimes it is not the person themselves that we ache for, but the self that came alive in their company. With them, laughter moved through me effortlessly, like sunlight spilling across a room. With them, I softened into a gentleness I rarely allowed. With them, I felt more awake, more radiant, more whole. And when they were gone, what I grieved was not only their absence, but the part of myself they helped me remember.

I have come to believe that every person who enters our life carries a mirror. They arrive with uncanny timing, just as some hidden part of us is ready to be seen. They reflect back our beauty, our vulnerability, our shadows, our light. Whether we call it destiny, vibration, or divine orchestration, they are messengers of our becoming, illuminating corners of ourselves we might never have noticed alone.

And so when they leave, what remains? If I have truly been present, I find myself missing nothing. What lingers instead is gratitude. Gratitude for the gift of having been reflected back to myself. Gratitude for the lessons that unfolded through them. Gratitude for the sacredness of a chapter that closed in its own perfect timing. Presence turns loss into blessing. Presence allows me to honor the fullness of what was without needing it to remain.

Yet when I have not been present, when I rushed through moments or clung too tightly, the ache feels sharper. I do not only miss the person, I miss the unspoken words, the unlived tenderness, the self I never allowed to fully emerge. Perhaps this is why missing can feel so heavy. It is not always a longing for someone outside of us, but a longing for the life we glimpsed in ourselves and never fully embraced.

But nothing is ever truly lost. The people who come into our lives awaken us to a deeper self, and though they may be gone, that self remains. Their presence called something forward that belongs to us still. The gift does not leave with them. It becomes a part of who we are, echoing in our laughter, our silence, the way we touch the world.

To remember this is freedom. It softens longing into wonder. It transforms absence into presence. It teaches us that the ones we miss are not gone at all. They have woven themselves into us, and through us, they continue, as quiet sunlight on a morning we thought would be empty, as a whisper of our own radiance we thought we had lost.

A practice to try: the next time you find yourself missing someone, close your eyes and recall the version of yourself that they brought alive. Notice how it feels in your body, in your breath, in your spirit. Instead of reaching outward, turn inward and invite that part of you to stay. In doing so, you may discover that what you thought you had lost is still here, waiting to be lived more fully.

#TheSelfWeFindInAbsence, #PresenceOverLoss, #ReflectionsOnLonging

Emina Halimovic 9/28/25 Emina Halimovic 9/28/25

The Sacred Gift of Being Seen

What if, for one moment, you were fully seen? Not just heard, not just noticed, but deeply recognized. As if someone were holding up a mirror, revealing the very essence of your soul.

There are moments when words do more than pass through the air. They linger, luminous, as if time itself pauses to listen. In those moments, you are not only speaking, you are being witnessed. Not just heard, not just acknowledged, but felt. Embraced. As if a gentle light has settled over your being and revealed the corners you forgot were there.

Over the past several months, I have lived inside such a moment. Through hours of devoted conversation, through presence that remained steady and true, I have felt what it is like for someone to cherish the flow of my thoughts and the unfolding of my inner world. His recognition is not partial. It is whole. Intentional. At times, it feels as though God Himself placed a mirror before me, one in which I see myself clearly, deeply, entirely, as if each word carries a spark of the divine.

Solitude has always been my sanctuary. I treasure the quiet spaces where inspiration flows, where I can align with the current of creativity, what Abraham (through Ester Hicks) calls ‘tuning into Source.’ I know the joy of that flow. The pulse of alignment that feels like life itself moving through me. Yet to meet another soul who resonates with that same vibration, who delights in it alongside me, is nothing short of miraculous. It is a cocoon of joy. A luminous space I never want to leave. A room where even the air vibrates with possibility.

Here is the deeper revelation. In being seen, I see myself. His admiration does not inflate me. It reflects me. It draws me toward the parts of myself I might otherwise overlook. In that reflection, I fall more deeply in love with who I am. Gratitude rises like a tide. For him, yes, but also for the alignment itself, for the divine orchestration that allows me to experience what Rumi wrote: “The beauty you see in me is a reflection of you.” Each word I speak becomes a brushstroke, painting my soul across the space between us.

And now I invite you, dear reader, to step into this reflection. Perhaps you too have been recognized in another’s gaze. Perhaps these words are the mirror you have been waiting for. Notice the thoughts that rise. The quiet awakenings. The flickers of recognition stirring within you. Feel the brilliance. Feel the divinity. Already present, waiting to be seen. Like sunlight resting on a hidden garden, like a spark igniting beneath a calm night sky.

We all long for this. As children, we search for it in the eyes of our parents. As adults, we yearn for it in our lovers, our friends, our communities. Yet the truest form of being seen happens when life places before us a mirror that reflects back our own soul. That is alignment. That is grace. That is what it feels like to resonate fully with Source, the truth of who we are.

Perhaps, as you read these words, a spark lights within you. A candle igniting another candle. A pulse of presence. A quiet miracle flowing through the space between us. Every sentence vibrates with life. Every thought hums with recognition. Let it ripple into your heart. Let it echo the divinity that has always been there. Let it linger like the afterglow of sunrise, soft yet undeniable.

May you find the mirrors who reflect your brilliance. May you also become the mirror for yourself. May you witness your own soul with the devotion, love, and awe it deserves. And may every moment of true recognition ripple outward, igniting the world with the presence, alignment, and grace that have always existed within you.

Take a breath and ask yourself: Who or what mirrors your soul today, in this very moment? Notice quietly, reflect below, or journal if you wish. Your story may be the mirror someone else is waiting for.

#BeingSeen, SoulAlignment, #DivineReflection

Emina Halimovic 9/20/25 Emina Halimovic 9/20/25

The Neighbor Who Carried God

Guided by a Mother’s Spirit, Rooted in Ancestry, Revealing a Love Beyond Words

Some mornings etch themselves into the flesh of memory. They arrive without trumpets and leave a mark that will not fade. On this morning, fear and vulnerability met only one steady thing: a neighbor who came as presence, and through him I recognized the quiet movement of God in the ordinary. May these words remind you that healing often arrives not as spectacle but as the simple fidelity of someone who keeps their promise.

It was in the face of such fear that I understood the procedure could not be delayed. What had seemed abstract suddenly became urgent. The procedure had to be done quickly. It was not dangerous per se, but it would become so if I waited longer. A semi-invasive surgical procedure requiring anesthesia now loomed over me. The doctors said I needed someone present during the procedure and someone to transport me home. That requirement unsettled me more than the procedure itself.

God — whom could I trust with this? I thought, anxious and silent. My family and next of kin were not geographically available. I was alone.

I am reserved by nature. I carry my own burdens, hold my ground, and keep my needs private. Asking for help has always felt like a transgression against my pride. To reach out felt like imposing. Who was I to ask another to show up for me?

Then my father’s voice came back to me, calm and certain. If you ever need anything and we are not there, trust the Albanian neighbor next door.

Those words were not casual. They carried a history, the deep architecture of our Balkan life where family is identity and neighbors are extensions of kin. A Balkan neighbor is witness and guardian, a person whose loyalty is assumed rather than bargained. To show up without calculation is the measure of care. My father believed that truth. So did I, enough to ask.

That evening my neighbor stepped outside when I arrived home. Concern softened the lines of his face, but his words were steady. “Tell me the time tomorrow. I will take you and I will bring you home.” There were no questions, no weighing of inconvenience, only the form of a promise.

The hospital smelled of antiseptics. Fluorescent bulbs kept vigil. Machines hummed like small anxious insects. Waiting rooms filled with low conversations and the restless energy of other people’s fear. As we moved through corridors, my stomach knotted and my chest tightened. Then his voice, heavily accented and resolute, threaded through the storm inside me. “It will be all right, neighbor. You will be fine. Everything will be okay.” His assurance sank into me like a stone into water. Panic quieted. Muscles loosened. I felt less alone.

When the nurse stepped away to call for him and returned empty-handed, old dread crept back. For a moment I imagined being left here alone. Where did he go? Did work take him? I told myself I would figure it out on my own if he truly left. But beneath the resolve, there was a small, aching wanting. I wanted to believe he would be there. I whispered a fragile prayer:

God, I trust this man who has come into my life for this moment. I trust that he will be here for this when I wake. I surrender my fear and my body into Your hands. Should I not awake, I trust this man will know what to do to reach my family, for You gifted him to me.

I closed my eyes into stillness. Even as sleep gathered around me, the room was not empty. Something moved through that suspended hour, not a visible hand but a felt steadiness, a presence that seemed larger than any single body. It was an unfamiliar spirit leaning close, settling comfort over my face so that I could rest. Later I would understand that what I felt in that moment may have been his mother’s spirit guiding him. The tenderness I had known in that quiet was not only his doing; it arrived through him, an inheritance of love that translated into the devotion he offered.

When sound returned in the background, the first voice I heard was his. In his peculiar, loud accent, he spoke with my doctor, and the doctor gave him medical verbiage normally reserved for family. Rules softened in the presence of devotion. It was not a breach; it felt like an opening made by love. He had become, in that room, more than a neighbor. He was presence. So much so that I personally never saw or spoke to that doctor again.

When I opened my eyes, I saw him sitting across from me, waiting — quiet and unwavering. Relief washed through me. His stillness was intentional, not casual. Devotion sat beside me without demand or flourish. Later, as he spoke of hospital visits and the sudden loss of his own mother, I saw how grief had taught him to stand for others. Her absence had transfigured into a presence of care; her memory had become the rhythm by which he showed up. In him, she returned, alive again in service and tenderness.

As staff wheeled me toward his car, their faces registered curiosity and admiration. “He is a good man,” one whispered. I smiled and said plainly, “He is the best neighbor anyone could have.” They seemed surprised that such responsibility could belong to a neighbor alone. I knew why. This was not ordinary. This was a person choosing to remain when many would step away.

On our drive home, I thanked him for rearranging his morning, for giving himself entirely to my care. I felt safe, protected, held in a way I had not expected. He shrugged and answered simply,

“There is no need to thank me. I made a commitment to you, your health, your safety, your well-being. It feels good to do it. Every day I try to be a good human being. Simply an instrument of God.”

His voice softened as he spoke of his mother. He said that when he was with me he could feel her within him, proud and near. It was as if she were walking beside him through the hospital, directing each small kindness. Seeing him, I had the privilege of witnessing a good man who did not strive to be admirable; he simply was admirable by the way he loved.

In that presence, I understood that nothing about the morning was random. We were knotted together by culture and care, by a legacy that teaches neighbors to be family, by a mother’s spirit guiding the steps of a son. I felt chosen — chosen by presence, by commitment, by a fidelity that made a room safe.

Love revealed itself as being there. Love revealed itself as fidelity, not spectacle. A neighbor who sat in silence until my eyes opened, a voice that steadied my panic, hands-on devotion that rearranged the ordinary for another person’s need. Through him, I felt God. Through that felt presence, I understood a love that makes you certain you are exactly where you belong.

We search for miracles in grand scenes when often the miracle is the human who keeps showing up. If God moves in the world, perhaps God most often moves through ordinary fidelity. A hand that steadies you in a hospital. A voice that quiets your fear. The carrying forward of a promise born in a culture of mutual care. These acts are not lesser. They are small theologies in motion, embodiments of mercy, incarnations of presence.

Look around you. Notice the hands that steady you, the voices that calm you, the people who show up without expecting a name for their devotion. These are not ordinary. They are sacred. Allow yourself to receive such care. In receiving, you open a doorway for love and for God to move.

Love is presence. Love is fidelity. Love is the hand that steadies you, the voice that quiets fear, the neighbor who carries God.

#PresenceisLove, #OrdinaryFidelity, #SilentDevotion

Emina Halimovic 7/30/25 Emina Halimovic 7/30/25

When the Healer Loves

There are moments in life
where we glimpse something, or someone,
that awakens us.

Not because they are ours,
but because they remind us
of what we carry,
what we’ve healed,
what we’re still learning to love.

This is a meditation on that kind of encounter:
where attraction becomes a mirror,
and restraint becomes a form of devotion.

There is something maddening and miraculous about attraction.

When presence meets presence,
and you feel the invisible thread tighten between two gazes.

Not with words.
Not with logic.
But with some ancient knowing.

Yesterday evening,
my eyes met his,
and for a flicker of a moment that was also eternity,
I felt him feel me.

The twitch in his eye said it all.
Not flirtation.
Not play.
But that raw spark that lives somewhere
between curiosity and hunger.

I felt it like a rush in my bloodstream,
like time bent itself around us,
like my entire body leaned in
without moving a muscle.

That’s the thing.
It stirred me.

His presence stirred these quiet fires,
dormant, maybe, for years
as if something inside me had been waiting
for this particular kind of ignition.

But I can’t name it.
I don’t even think I want to.

It wasn’t his words.
There weren’t many.

It wasn’t anything obvious.

But in that moment,
it was like my soul recognized his.

Something passed between us:

wordless and invisible,
but unmistakable.

Neither of us really understood what was happening.
I’m not sure we had the emotional language
or awareness to decipher it.
But it didn’t matter.

The moment held its own weight.
It felt sacred in its not-knowing.

And then,
somehow,
our hands met.

In a magnetic choreography,
as if our palms remembered something
our minds had long forgotten.

Skin to skin.
Just once.
Just enough to send a hush
through the noise.

I still can’t name the captivating force about him.
Not exactly.

Only that his silence felt loud,
like something unfinished,
like a story I already knew the ending to,
even though we’d barely spoken.

It wasn’t his physique
or even the gravity of his complex mind,
though there was something magnetic
in the way he carried it.

It was the ache beneath it.
The unsaid.
The flicker in his gaze
that didn’t reach for me,
but somehow reached into me.

And maybe that’s what soul recognition really is.
Not certainty,
but a sudden ignition.
A quickening in the blood.

A fire that’s less about them,
and more about the parts of you they awaken.

Because something unspoken
lit up inside me.

Something wild and ancient.
Something I thought I had buried,
or integrated,
or outgrown.

But there it was:
the pulse of longing,
the ache to merge,
the hunger to offer,
to pour myself
into the hollow places
of someone else.

But then came the wave of knowing
the kind of knowing only a healer understands.

Because I saw more than his beauty.
I saw his ache.

His ache spoke in silence.
His ache called out in frequencies
only my nervous system understands.

Because I have carried that ache.
I have held it.
Tamed it.
Learned it like a language.
Mastered it into art.

And here is the great cosmic trick:

When you are a healer
who has made peace with your wounds,
you don’t just see pain in others.

You feel summoned by it.
Drawn to it.
As if loving them better
could somehow rewrite your own history.

But I know better now.

I know love is not healing someone.
Love is not fixing someone.

Love is presence.
Love is God.

And God does not interfere.

Love includes everything.
It is not light over shadow.
It is shadow wrapped in light.

It is seeing someone’s brokenness,
and bowing to its timing.

But how do I hold that line?
How do I love someone’s becoming
without shaping it?
How do I not offer the medicine
when it sits ready in my palm,
and I know it could ease the edge
of what’s ahead for them?

That is the division
between my ego
and my higher self.

The ego whispers:
You are here to help.
You can guide him.
You have the tools.
Look how close he is
to cracking open.

But higher awareness
she reminds me:
Healing cannot be forced.
Timelines are sacred.

To interfere with someone’s process
is still control,
even if it wears the costume of compassion.

And so,
I am learning a more courageous love.

The love that holds without holding on.
The love that witnesses without rescuing.
The love that allows someone to stay
messy and unfinished,
without making their chaos
a project.

I am learning that sometimes
the attraction is not about them.
It is about me.

The part of me ready to receive.
The part of me that longs to be seen
the way I see others.
The part of me that wants to be loved
without earning it.
Without guiding anyone back to themselves
in exchange.

This dance between us may never bloom.
Or it may bloom into something
I cannot yet imagine.

But its gift
is already rooted in me.

That is gratifying.
And rapturously delicious.

It is showing me how far I’ve come.
How deeply I feel.
How much I trust my intuition.
How ready I am
to love
without needing to lead.

I wonder how many of us
have stood in this place.

This in-between.
Where your soul says yes,
but your wisdom says wait.

Where you feel the pulse of potential,
and yet bow to the art of patience.

To the lovers,
the healers,
the space holders,
the ones who see into the cracks of others,
I say this:

You do not need to shape someone into their healing.
You do not need to prove your love
by sacrificing your boundaries.
You do not need to collapse
into the ache of their becoming.

Your presence,
your stillness,
your own healing
is enough.

Let love be an invitation,
not an intervention.

Let love be a quiet flame,
not a wildfire.

And if they rise,
if they rise into themselves
and meet you there
with open eyes and open hands,
then may that be holy.

But if they do not,
let that be holy too.

You are not here to save them.
You are here to stay true
to the sacred path
of your own becoming.

And sometimes,
that is the highest form of love
there is.

Emina Halimovic 7/25/25 Emina Halimovic 7/25/25

The War Before the Hush: God, I Don’t Know Why I’m Still Sitting Here

Some days, stillness feels like surrender. Some days, it feels like survival. This piece is for anyone who has ever sat inside their own hush, fighting the impulse to run, daring to trust the quiet more than the noise. May it remind you that stillness is sometimes the bravest pose of all.

I’m angry at myself.

Let that be clear before I call any of this sacred.

I am angry because I have everything I need at my fullest disposal to move.

Three homes I could run to if these walls close in too tight.

A car that works fine. Gas in the tank to drive me to any place I desire.

The ocean at my feet, minutes away, free and wide, able to swallow every stale thought I keep dragging back up.

And yet here I am.

Sitting in this same room, scrolling my life away, comparing myself to people I don’t even respect, swallowing highlight reels I know are half-true at best, poison at worst.

I know better. I know the photos aren’t the full story. I know my sister’s smiling road trips and wedding glows are stitched over private silences and separate beds and words unsaid.

I know the women flexing bodies and babies and big diamond rings feel the same hush I do when they turn the screen off.

And yet here I am. Jealous anyway. Bitter anyway. Restless anyway.

Part of me says, Get up. Go to the ocean. Run to one of those other houses. Pack a bag and visit a new place. Be wild. Be free.

But the truth is, I won’t. I won’t move. I’m paralyzed within myself.

Because there is another part of me, older, quieter, that knows for all my hunger for more, I haven’t yet lived anything that shows me out there is better than the hush I’m holding in here.

I keep myself still like this on purpose, though it looks like failure from the outside.

I know what I could do.

I know what I could have.

If I wanted a partner, a marriage, a family to pose beside, I could bend myself into it.

But I won’t.

I’ve watched too many shadows dance behind pretty doors. I won’t braid my light into someone else’s unclaimed darkness just to say I have company. I won’t fix holes in other people’s hearts when they won’t lift a needle for themselves.

I won’t spend precious life force energy on illusions.

So here I am.

Restless in my room. Pissed at my stillness. Annoyed at my scrolling. Angry at my envy.

And beneath the fight there is a harder deeper honesty:

I choose this hush.

I choose this stillness.

I choose this emptiness because even my emptiness has been kinder and safer than the half-promises I’ve lived before.

It costs me closeness. It costs me stories to tell at dinner tables.

It costs me warmth some nights when my bones ache for another body.

But the hush has never lied to me.

The hush does not break what it can’t fix.

This is my pose.

This is my warrior.

I am the prisoner and the jailer.

I am the key and the locked door.

I stretch my anger like a muscle.

I hold my bitterness like breath.

I burn my envy down until it’s just ash on my tongue.

And when I am spent, when the poses are done, I lie down flat in the middle of my own hush.

I see it now for what it is, my Shavasana.

I watch my students fight it every time.

They sweat and shake and open and break but when it is time to rest, they squirm. They peek at the clock. They would rather skip it.

But the medicine is there. In the final pose.

Where the practice seeps into the marrow. Where the body integrates the fire it just survived. Where the mind is forced to face itself, still and naked and whole.

So maybe I am not stuck at all.

Maybe I am in the final pose before the next beginning.

Maybe God is saying, Lie here. Breathe here. Do not move until the blueprint comes.

Maybe I am building a vibration inside myself so true I refuse to stand up for anything less than its match.

Maybe my hush is my discipline. My solitude, my proof that I trust my becoming more than I trust my longing.

So let me envy. Let me scroll. Let me watch the fake sunshine. Let me rage and compare and then come back to this room that holds me like no lover ever has.

This is the final pose.

This is the stillness that says not yet.

This is the cage I built to be free in.

This is my Shavasana.

And then the hush speaks.

You are here because you are not done listening.

You are here because the hush asked for your company and you said yes.

You are here because every attempt to run is only half of you fleeing.

You are here because you are not meant to pack your bags and scatter your power across empty maps.

You are here because I am still feeding you something holy you do not yet see.

You are here because this is the final pose.

You are here because this silence is your training ground.

You are here because if you left now, you would only circle back to find yourself here again.

You are here because I asked you to stay.

You are here because your fight is the fire that tempers your stillness into diamond.

You are here because your longing sharpens your faith.

You are here because your hush is not emptiness but instruction.

Lie here. Breathe here.

When it is time to rise, the hush will speak again.

It will say Now.

It will say Open.

It will say Go.

But not before it finishes its blessing.

Rest now, restless one.

Hold your pose.

The hush is your fiercest promise.

When you rise, the world will rise to meet you.

Until then, let your stillness be enough.

Until then, let your hush be holy.

Until then, let your burning be your devotion.

Until then, lie down inside your becoming.

Until then, trust the hush that holds you.

Until then, trust the hush that births you.

When you stand, it will be because the hush says Yes. And when I stand, I will carry this hush inside my ribs like breath, proof that God and I were never separate, that when I move, it’s because we move together.

If this hush finds you too, stay. Lie here. Breathe here.

This is my hush… tucked quiet behind my ribs, wide as the dark before me. When I stand, it stands with me.

Emina Halimovic 7/20/25 Emina Halimovic 7/20/25

Between the Fence and the Glass

I have a little place tucked deeper in the city. Far enough to feel like a small trip away, a sense of somewhere else when I cannot travel all the way home. My family built it, and there is something in its old-world charm that reminds me of Europe, a pocket of the Balkans hidden inside Pensacola.

I come here to think. To be somewhere that is not my home, but still my own. It is quiet. It lets me step out of my daily life for a while.

I thought I would have this place just for myself. A quiet piece of the world where only my footsteps echo. But life moves in small surprises.

The neighbor came first as a feeling. I would sit outside in the evenings and sense him even when I could not see him. There is only a fence between us, not high at all, just enough to mark where his balcony ends and mine begins.

What caught me first was the way his voice moved through the air. The way he shifts between languages when he talks on the phone. The way he welcomes people who visit. So many tongues passing through that thin line of wood. Slavic, Albanian and Italian words, hints of others, bits of laughter and phrases I know so well. It pulled me in. It felt like a piece of home sat beside me in this city where I am otherwise alone.

So I would sit there, quiet in my small meditation. I could feel my thoughts lean over that fence, curious. Watching the cigarette smoke drift from his side to mine. Listening for small clues of who he is.

Sometimes I think about it like a frog on glass. Not because a frog came to me, but because the image feels true. When I see a frog pressed to a window, I wonder if it sees inside. I wonder if it thinks about the room and the people, or if it stays content outside and slips away when it has seen enough.

In that same way, I sat there, pressed to the edge of my small fence. Watching. Wondering. Imagining his world like a room behind a pane I could knock on if I chose. Wondering what it would be like to step through.

And maybe that wondering pulled me closer. Maybe the pull was stronger because of what I long for. A family. A closeness. A piece of the Balkans when I cannot reach all the way home. Maybe my mind spun the odds into something bigger, whispering what are the chances that the love I have asked for sits just on the other side of this thin line of wood.

We started talking over that fence. Small words at first, like neighbors in an old story. His voice felt familiar even when the words were new. He invited me over, and I crossed that thin line.

Inside his space, the air changed. We talked about small things at first, but it moved deeper. He told me about his childhood, the places in him that still feel empty, the anger that flares when old pain rises. I listened because I know those shadows too. I have carried them. I have sat alone with them and turned them soft inside me.

As I stepped back to my side of the fence, I hugged him tightly. I felt the cross he wore around his neck pressed between us. I remember pointing to it, reminding him to look inward to God for the answers his emptiness was asking for. I did not want him to feel abandoned or rejected, because that was never what I was doing. I wanted him to remember he is never truly alone and that there is a way through.

When I stepped back into my own space, it felt awkward for a moment but good inside. I did not lose any piece of myself in that crossing. I did not fall back into old holes. The old ache could not fool me this time.

Still, part of me asks why. Why did life dress up my old wounds in a new voice and call it fate? Why did it pull me close with the scent of home, then peel it back to show the same raw place I thought I had healed?

He cracked open an old wound I thought I had buried — the wound of abandonment. For a moment, he reminded me how quickly longing can wear the mask of love, how easily I could stay inside the story I had built. I wanted the fantasy to be true. I wanted us both to slip through the glass and find each other whole on the other side.

But when I crossed over, I found his shadows waiting. I found my old ache asking to be useful again. I saw how easy it is to step back into familiar pain and call it closeness.

Sometimes I wish the frog could slip through the glass and find a perfect world waiting. But maybe the glass is mercy. Maybe the fence is grace.

If my healing is true, then the lesson is not to step through again. The lesson is that I can stand here, curious and open, but I do not have to lose myself for the same old wound. I do not have to mistake longing for love. I do not have to mistake familiarity for fate.

Maybe my only task was to sit with him for a moment. To offer presence. To be a soft mirror for his shadows. To remember that just because I can hold that pain does not mean I must live in it again.

So when I stand at the fence now, I feel it. The pull. The ache. The old dream flickering like a candle. And I feel my freedom too. I do not have to step through just because I wonder. I do not have to lose myself to keep someone company in their darkness.

Longing is not wrong. Love is not wrong. But sometimes the deepest love is to stand still. To bless what is on the other side. To stay whole.

The fence is thin. The glass is clear. The door is always open. So is my freedom to stay home inside myself.

Maybe you have felt this too. Maybe you have pressed your heart to the glass and found the view more beautiful than the crossing.

When the pull comes, ask what it is made of. Is it love, or an old wound wanting to be touched again?

The fence. The glass. The door. And always, your freedom.

Emina Halimovic 7/20/25 Emina Halimovic 7/20/25

When They Didn’t See You: Healing Childhood Emotional Neglect and Coming Home to Yourself

So many of us carry invisible wounds from the people who were supposed to see us first and love us best. When that love is missing, we learn to shrink. We learn to stay quiet. We learn to give and give until there is nothing left for ourselves.

This piece is for the child inside you who still longs to be seen and for the adult who is ready to come home.

When the Ones Who Should Have Seen You Didn’t

There is something that happens when the people who were supposed to see you first never really did. It shapes you in ways you do not even know until one day your body whispers no more and your heart cracks open to show you everything you buried just to survive.

I know my parents did the best they could with what they knew. They came from their own stories, their own wounds, their own missing pieces of love. This is not to blame them. This is to see clearly, so I can love them for who they are and love myself for who I am becoming.

When the Body Speaks

For me, it came quietly.

My body was tired all the time.

Bone tired.

Eyes burning tired.

Spirit tired in a way no nap could fix.

I thought maybe I was just overdoing it.

I thought maybe I just needed to push a little more.

Try harder.

Be stronger.

Pretend better.

Then the blood tests came back.

Critical anemia.

A body starved of what it needs to keep moving.

A body begging for rest.

A body telling the truth my mouth was too afraid to speak.

The Love That Didn’t Come the Way I Needed

When I found out what was happening in my body I thought maybe my mother would soften. I told her the words the doctor gave me. I hoped maybe she would hold me the way I have always longed for her to hold me.

She did not. She brushed it off, maybe because she did not know what else to say. Maybe because this is how she learned to handle pain, to stay busy, to keep moving, to not feel too much at once. I know now she did the best she could with what she was given. But my body still needed more.

I told my father. Not really told him but I tried. He did not ask how I felt. He asked what needed to be done. Another thing to fix. Another thing to carry for him while my body could barely carry itself.

Yet he has always been there when something needed doing. Always showing love through action. For that I am grateful. As a child I sometimes wished for softness too. A kind of holding you cannot build or buy or repair. That was not his fault. It was just where our hearts did not always meet.

When I hung up the phone I sat in the quiet. I realized it was never just about this new word from the doctor. It was not really about my tired blood. It was about the part of me that always wanted to be seen and held in the moments that mattered most. It was about the ache that has lived in me far longer than any test result.

The Child Inside

I felt my eyes burn. I felt the tears pressing at the back of my throat. I asked myself why does this hurt so much. But I already knew.

It hurt because the same child inside me still wants to be seen. Still wants to be held. Still wants to be loved just for existing.

All my life I have poured love outward. I have held everyone else’s pieces together. I have made myself useful so no one would throw me away. I have stayed quiet about what I need because I thought maybe if I stayed small enough no one would leave.

I see now how deep that wound runs. I see now why love feels so impossible sometimes. How can I open my hands to receive when they have always been busy holding up the sky for someone else. How can I trust that softness will stay when softness never stayed before.

The Turning Point

Something in me is tired of pretending I am fine. Something in me is tired of being useful while I am starving inside. Something in me wants to learn what it means to hold myself the way I always needed to be held.

I write this not because I want pity. Not because I want eyes on me for the sake of attention. I write this because writing reminds me I exist.

Writing is how I sit with the child inside me and say

You do not have to disappear anymore.

You do not have to earn love anymore.

You do not have to hold everyone else while no one holds you.

Maybe You Know Too

Maybe you are reading this and you feel your own chest tighten. Maybe you know exactly what I mean. Maybe you have your own memories. Your own moments when you felt invisible in the rooms where you were supposed to feel safest.

Maybe you learned to shrink too. To hush your pain so it would not make others uncomfortable. To be good so no one would leave you behind.

I want you to know this. You are not alone in this ache. You are not the only one who wakes up tired of pretending you are okay when you are not. You are not the only one who wonders if love is real or if you will ever feel it without strings attached.

This Is Your Permission

You do not need to spend another lifetime trying to earn what should have been given freely. You do not need to waste yourself holding what does not belong to you anymore. You do not need to hand your heart over to people who do not know how to hold it.

This is your permission. Your reminder. Your seed of healing planted right here in these words.

You can come home to yourself. You can be the one who sees you. You can be the one who says

I see you.

I love you.

I will not leave you when you cry.

I will not leave you when you say no.

I will not leave you when you rest.

I will not leave you when you ask for more.

Come Home

Place your hand on your chest right now. Close your eyes. Say it softly to yourself

I see you.

Say it again

I love you.

Let your breath slow. Let the tears come if they need to. They are not weakness. They are water for the seeds inside you that have waited so long to grow.

Ask that small part of you what it needs to hear from you right now. Say it out loud. Say it again tomorrow. Say it until you believe it. Say it until you no longer feel like a stranger to your own heart.

This is my therapy. My offering. My truth laid bare so you can see your own. So you do not have to carry your wounds alone in the dark anymore. So you do not have to keep searching for someone else to fix what is already alive inside you.

I know now this is not about blame. This is not about what they could not give. This is about what I am learning to give myself. This is the contrast that taught me how to love bigger. This is the absence that showed me how precious presence really is.

You do not need permission to feel whole. You do not need permission to let the old pain fall away. You do not need to stay small to keep the peace.

You are here. You are seen. You are loved.

Take these words. Let them root inside you. Water them every time you breathe.

Come home to yourself. You are enough. And you always were.

Come Rest. Come Remember. Come Home.

May these words remind you: you are not alone. If your heart longs for a safe place to rest and remember, you are welcome here. At Yin Yang Healing Arts, we hold this space for you to come home to yourself, to your breath, your body, and your truth.

Come home when you are ready. You are enough. An you always were.

Emina Halimovic 7/13/25 Emina Halimovic 7/13/25

When Longing Wakes Us Up: Choosing Yourself Without Shrinking

This is for anyone who’s ever felt longing turn into self-doubt. May these words remind you that choosing yourself is the most sacred act of love.

There are moments in life when love appears like a gentle breeze
carrying prayers you whispered long ago.

Sometimes it shows up soft and nourishing
warming parts of you that thought they had retired from wanting.

Sometimes it arrives to remind you how much you’ve grown
and how much you’re still unwilling to trade
for a taste of something that almost fits.

When Someone Feels Like an Answer

Recently, I found myself in one of those tender, tangled places.

He came into my life like an answer.
He offered warmth and presence.
He opened his home and his hands to care for me
in ways my independent spirit had nearly forgotten it still craved.

He fed me well.
He cleaned my car, fixed little things I would have done alone.
He made me laugh until my belly hurt
and let me rest in the comfort of his arms.

For a flicker of time I wondered... maybe this was it.
The softness I had been praying for.

The Spark and the Whisper

We talked about dreams and futures.
About children.
About starting fresh and building something true.

His longing brushed against mine
and stirred an old spark in me that I thought I had laid to rest at thirty-eight.

I felt my heart say maybe.
Maybe this is the season to open fully.
Maybe this is the door I have been waiting for.

Yet in the quiet spaces between words
I felt the tension too.

He spoke about bodies, health, fitness
in a way that brought my softness up for silent inspection.

I saw it in his eyes at the gym
in the way his glance measured my belly, my curves, the pace of my breath.

That old familiar whisper returned.

Am I enough like this?
Do I need to tighten up, shrink down, smooth out
just to be worthy of this tenderness staying?

I Sat With That Whisper

Once upon a time
I would have believed it.

I would have wrapped myself tighter
agreed to eat less, move more, laugh smaller
apologize for the space my softness takes up.

But not now.

Not after the years I have spent returning to my body
as a home instead of an enemy.

Not after all the prayers I have spoken over my own curves
my enoughness
my longing for love that holds all of me
not just the version that is easy to display.

When the Dream Fades

So when the conversations about children faded into fear and excuses
when the warmth turned cool
when the readiness slipped back into old wounds he wasn’t ready to heal
I felt that familiar ache.

The same ache you may know well.
The one that tempts you to wonder if maybe you are the problem.
Maybe if you just stay a little longer, bend a little more, squeeze yourself smaller
love will stay too.

I felt the ache.

Then I felt my truth rise up stronger.

I will not shrink for love.
Not now.
Not ever again.

So I chose to leave
gently and honestly.

With no resentment
only gratitude for what we shared.

I thanked him for the warmth and the laughter
for the flicker of a dream that reminded me what I truly want.

I packed my things
closed his door behind me
and drove myself back home.

Both lighter and heavier at once.

Longing Is Not a Punishment

Here is what longing teaches us.
It is not punishment.
It is not proof we are foolish to want more.

It is a compass.
Pointing us toward what is truly ready to meet us
fully, freely
without conditions that demand our smallness.

I miss him.
I miss waking up with someone breathing beside me
the ease of being looked after.
I miss the way his presence made the world feel softer for a moment.

But missing him does not mean I made a mistake.
Missing him means my heart is awake
still open for the kind of love that does not weigh me on invisible scales.

What I Really Want

So I sat with my longing
and asked myself again — what do I really want?

I want a love that delights in my softness
as it is today.

A love that says yes to my belly
and my unpolished edges.

A love that can hold the reality of children
a future
a life built in truth
not as a someday fantasy
but as a sacred now.

I want presence that does not slip away when fear comes knocking.
Someone whose eyes stay kind when I am messy.
Who keeps laughing with me when I am ordinary.
Whose touch anchors me
instead of measuring me.

If You Know This Ache

If you are here, reading this
maybe you are feeling that same ache.

Maybe you too sat across from someone who felt like a promise
but turned out to be a bridge.

Maybe your prayers brought someone who cracked you open
just enough to show you how much more your heart is ready for.

If so, I want to remind you...
you did not fail because you chose yourself.
You did not waste your prayers or your time.

Longing does not mean you have to go back
and squeeze yourself into something that cannot hold you fully.

Longing means you are alive.
Your softness is sacred.
Your dreams are not too big.
Your heart is not too much.

A Gentle Ritual

When I felt my heart still tethered to him by invisible threads
I did a small ritual.

I sat alone with a candle and my breath.
I placed my hand on my chest
and I said thank you.
Thank you for the sweetness, for the lessons, for the spark.

I imagined that cord between us — gold and warm and beautiful —
then I cut it.
Gently.
Lovingly.

I called my energy home.
I filled the empty place with golden light
and whispered to myself:
I am whole. I am worthy. I am free.

If you feel that cord tugging at your ribs tonight
maybe this is your moment too.

Find your quiet place.
Place your hand over your heart.
Honor what was sweet.
Release what cannot stay.
Call yourself back.

Remind yourself — you do not have to shrink for love that is real.
You do not have to earn tenderness with your silence or your sacrifice.

You Are Already Enough

May you trust that the love you want
wants you too
just as you are
not as you promise to become.

May you trust that your longing is holy.
That your prayers never require your smallness
in exchange for being answered.

May you trust that you are already enough
for the softness you crave.

And when the ache returns
place your hand on your heart.
Feel your own warmth.
Breathe into the beautiful truth
that you are not alone.

You are not too much.
You are not behind.
You are simply here
on the edge of the life that is ready for your full presence.

I see you
exactly as you are.

And you are already enough.

If these words find you at the right time
I hope you let them hold you.

If you feel called to share your story
my door is open.

If you long for a safe space to remember your own enoughness
I am here for you.

May we all remember this.
Choosing ourselves is never a loss.
It is the deepest kind of love there is…<3

With warmth and truth,
Emina 💞
Yin Yang Healing Arts

#soulmedicine #IChooseMe #EmotionalSpiritualWellness

Emina Halimovic 4/16/25 Emina Halimovic 4/16/25

Emotional Alchemy: How to Transmute Anger, Fear, Jealousy & Shame into Inner Alignment

Life doesn’t always move in straight lines. It swirls, stretches, and pulls us in all directions.
There are seasons of connection, creativity, and clarity—
And then there are moments that unravel us.

More often than not, what knocks us off-center isn’t the outer world.
It’s the inner tide:

The fiery sting of anger.
The quiet grip of fear.
The heavy ache of jealousy.
The silent weight of shame.

These emotions aren’t random. And They’re certainly not wrong.
They’re signals. Messengers. Inner navigators.

We are not meant to bypass them.
We are meant to listen, because each one carries a coded message from your highest self, asking you to come home.

“You are very powerful, provided you know how powerful you are.”
— Yogi Bhajan

When emotions feel overpowering, it’s often because we’ve forgotten the source of our true power:
Our awareness. Our alignment. Our connection to the Divine within.

Anger: The Fire That Reveals What’s Been Denied

Anger isn’t the enemy. It’s the alarm.

It flares when a part of you feels unseen, disrespected, or betrayed.
But beneath anger is often something more vulnerable: Sadness, Disappointment, An unmet need left unspoken.

“Anger is an energy that burns the vessel in which it is stored.”
— Yogi Bhajan

When ignored, anger becomes a slow poison. But when honored, anger becomes insight—a sacred invitation to reconnect with your truth.
It tells you where you’ve been self-abandoning, where a boundary has been crossed, where your truth has been denied.

Rather than reacting from it, listen to it.

Ask yourself:

What part of me needed protection and didn’t get it?
What truth have I buried beneath this heat?

Take five minutes with one of these questions. See what your inner voice reveals.

When you lean into that conversation, anger no longer consumes you. It realigns you.

Fear: The Shadow That Blocks the Light of Trust

Fear is a shapeshifter.
Sometimes loud and obvious.
Sometimes quiet and convincing.

It shows up as: Procrastination, Overthinking, Control, or Avoidance.
It whispers: You’ll fail. You’re not ready. You don’t have what it takes.

But fear is not the truth— it’s a story. A protective one, but still a story.
And when we confuse fear for fact, we begin building our lives around illusions.

“When you focus upon lack in an attitude of complaining, you establish a vibrational point of attraction that then gives you access only to more thoughts of complaint.”
— Abraham Hicks

Fear thrives in disconnection.
But the moment you reconnect with your inner being—your intuition, your breath, your presence—you begin to dissolve its grip.

Ask yourself:

What part of me needs reassurance right now?
If fear didn’t get to decide, what would I try?

Sit with one question in stillness. Let your breath carry the answer to the surface. You don’t need to leap from fear into bliss.
Just shift into relief.
That’s realignment. That’s power.

Jealousy: The Signal That You’ve Forgotten Your Own Magic

Jealousy is subtle—and it lingers.
It often hides behind: Envy, Judgment, or Self-doubt.
It shows up when you believe someone else’s light somehow dims your own.

But jealousy isn’t really about the other person.
It’s a mirror of your own disconnection from worthiness. It arises when we momentarily forget our inherent worth and divine connection.

“If you cannot see God in all, you cannot see God at all.”
— Yogi Bhajan

Jealousy arises when you forget:

that you, too, are divine.
That what’s available and possible for others is also available and possible for you
That your timing is sacred and unique

Ask yourself:

What desire is this jealousy pointing me toward?
Can I let this trigger become a portal to inspiration?

“When you see someone living the life you desire, don’t feel lack. Feel inspiration. That’s your inner being saying: ‘Yes, that too is for you.’”
— Abraham Hicks

The moment you shift from comparison to curiosity, your frequency rises and life responds in kind. That is Law of the Universe. Take a moment to journal your answers. You may uncover a hidden dream waiting to be reclaimed.

Shame: The Silent Weight That Separates You From Your Power

Shame isn’t loud like anger or sharp like fear.
It’s heavy. Quiet.

It whispers: You’re not enough. Not smart enough, Not lovable enough, Not successful enough.

Shame often manifests as:

Self-sabotage
Shrinking in relationships
Emotional numbness

But here’s the truth:

You were never meant to carry shame.
It isn’t yours. It’s inherited. Conditioned. Absorbed.

And every time you allow yourself to feel it through your body with compassion, it begins to dissolve.

Shame loses its grip the moment you stop identifying with it.

You are not broken. You are breaking open.

These Emotions Aren’t Blocks—They’re Guides

What if anger, fear, jealousy, and shame weren’t mistakes, but markers?
What if each one was lovingly pointing you back to something you’ve forgotten?

These emotions show up when you’re out of resonance with who you really are.

They’re not here to punish you.
They’re here to wake you up.

Your job isn’t to conquer these emotions.
It’s to meet them with honesty. To hear what they’re really asking.
To let them bring you back into alignment with your truth.

This is the heart of all conscious healing—whether through yoga, bodywork, breath, meditation, or inner inquiry:

We’re not just working on the body.
We’re working with the emotional intelligence of the soul.

Healing Practices for Realignment

These gentle prompts, rooted in yogic wisdom and vibrational healing, can support you in returning to your center, into balance:

When Anger Flares:

Pause. Place your hands over your heart.
Ask what boundary or truth was ignored.
Then speak from your center, not your wound.

When Fear Whispers:

Close your eyes. Ground into the present.
Reach for a thought that feels slightly better.
(As Abraham Hicks teaches: you don’t need to find joy—just reach for relief.)

When Jealousy Creeps In:

Acknowledge the desire beneath it.
Celebrate what you see in others as proof of what’s possible for you too.
That energy magnetizes your own blessings.

When Shame Surfaces:

Gently remind yourself:
“I am not my past. I am not my pain. I am present. I am growing. I am enough.”
Then ask: What part of me needs compassion most right now? Write from that place. Healing begins in honesty.
Let breath and body reconnect you to truth.

Each time you choose presence over projection, softness over shame, and awareness over autopilot, you return to your divine rhythm.

You Don’t Have to Master Your Emotions. Just Listen.

Healing is not a destination.
It’s a deep remembering.

The goal is not perfection. The goal is resonance.
Coming back, again and again, to your inner alignment.

Your emotions are sacred messengers.
Not threats. Not weaknesses. They are keys.

Let them speak.
Let them guide you.
And then—choose to return.

Want to Go Deeper?

If this resonated, you’re already on the path.

At Yin Yang Healing Arts, we hold space for this exact kind of transformation—through conscious bodywork, mindful movement, emotional integration, and nervous system attunement.

You are your own healer. But you don’t have to do it alone.

You’ve always been whole.
Let this be the season you remember.

Sources & Inspirations

Yogi Bhajan, The Teachings of Yogi Bhajan: The Power of the Spoken Word
Abraham Hicks, Ask and It Is Given — www.abraham-hicks.com
Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich (Law of Vibration principles)
Personal experiences, teachings, and reflections from my own journey as a student and practitioner of yogic and vibrational healing

We’d Love to Hear From You

What part of this message stirred something in you? Which emotion has been gently asking to be seen? Can you meet it now—not with resistance, but with grace?

Share your reflections, in the comments below or join us on social media. Your truth may be the light someone else needs.

#EmotionalAlchemy, #HealingThroughEmotions, #MindBodyAlignment

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BIG NEWS! Yin Yang Healing Arts Expands to Gulf Breeze, FL — Massage Therapy & Holistic Healing Now in Two Locations

Looking for the best massage therapy and holistic healing in Gulf Breeze or Perdido Key?

You just found it.

We are beyond excited to announce that Yin Yang Healing Arts is expanding to Gulf Breeze, Florida!

Located right on the Pensacola Bay, our new Gulf Breeze location is now open and ready to welcome you into a peaceful space for deep restoration and transformation. 🌿

From One Dream to Two Healing Spaces

What began as a small dream in Perdido Key (MM45971) has blossomed into two sacred healing spaces. Our newest location is now officially open in Gulf Breeze (MM46196)! 💖

And in true divine timing (on this symbolic rainy morning, of course! ☔️), the Florida Health Department of Medical Quality Assurance paid us a visit for our final inspection...
→ We were Approved on the spot! 🎉🎊 → Cue the happy dances and tears of gratitude! 🙌💫

This expansion took just three months since opening our Perdido Key location. Divine timing? Absolutely!

But let’s be real... none of this would be possible without YOU — our incredible, heart-centered community. 💛

Your love, your referrals, and your trust in us have made this dream a reality.

Why Clients Love Yin Yang Healing Arts 🕊️

We’re not your typical massage studio.

Every session at Yin Yang Healing Arts is intentionally crafted to meet you where you are — blending clinical therapeutic bodywork with holistic practices that support your body, calm your nervous system, and reconnect you to your natural state of balance. 🌿

Our Most-Loved Healing Services Include:

→ Sports & Clinical Massage infused with intentional guided breathwork
→ Deep Tissue Therapeutic Massage with Thai Yoga Massage
→ Lymphatic Drainage Massage
→ Prenatal Massage (yes, we have the actual equipment!)
→ Myofascial Release & Acupressure
→ Cupping Therapy
→ Energetic & Nervous System Healing via Reiki & Pranic Healing
→ Aromatherapy & Sound Therapy

Always trauma-informed. Always body-positive. Always heart-led. 💖

Ready to Feel Better in Your Body?

Whether you’re seeking pain relief, stress relief, injury recovery, or simply a safe space to relax — we invite you to experience the difference at Yin Yang Healing Arts. 🙏

Now proudly serving:

📍 Gulf Breeze, Florida Massage Therapy
📍 Perdido Key, Florida Massage Therapy
📍 Pensacola, Florida Massage Therapy

Two Locations — One Heart-Centered Mission 💛

→ Perdido Key Location — MM45971 - 5612 Bauer Rd. Perdido Key, FL
→ Gulf Breeze Location — MM46196 - 65 Baybridge Dr. Suite 102, Gulf Breeze, FL

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Your body, mind, and soul will thank you. ✨

→ Explore our website here: www.yinyanghealingartsllc.com
→ Or call/text us directly at: 720-400-2028

With infinite love & gratitude,
The Yin Yang Healing Arts Team 💖

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